What are the essential steps to take right now?

[sigyrnivosigyrn]

My spouse and I have decided to end our marriage, and I am currently stuck in a state of total shock and confusion. I know that divorce is the only healthy option left for us, but the actual process is daunting beyond words. I am overwhelmed by the thought of untangling our lives, especially when it comes to our shared finances and property. The legal system feels cold and intimidating, and I am terrified of being taken advantage of during this vulnerable time. I really need some practical advice from this community on how to navigate the early stages. What are the essential steps to take right now? How do I find a trustworthy lawyer who will actually look out for my best interests? Any words of comfort or guidance would be amazing.